That would be a good analogy, if the man who's supposed to stand in for shy people wasn't a psychopath. Even if you say dramatization, it's a pretty far reach there, since most shy people don't end up like that, and don't have his mind set.A couple months or so ago there was a story about this guy who would just dress up nice and sit in public hoping that a girl would notice him and talk to him. He didn't do anything except just sit there and maybe look at them a bit. He did this many times, but of course to no avail. After a while, he became angry. He saw these other men with their girlfriends and wondered why none of the women were talking to him? He was dressed up more nicely than them! But these men so easily had girlfriends! Sadly, this story ended with him killing women and men out of anger.
Why did the women never talk to him? Well of course, because he never actually tried to talk to them himself. Conversation is a two-way process, and if you are the seeker of conversation then you must put the effort in first.
This story, to be honest, is reminded to me by this whole "shy person" shebang. [DRAMATACIZED] "Why aren't people talking to me? I'm here in public! How dare these people talk to their friends they already know and love when I'm here all alone! They shouldn't expect me to go to talk to them, they should come and talk to me! I'm the new player! I hate cliques!"
So no, I'm not saying "screw shy people". I'm saying that learning to initiate conversation is part of learning to socialize and become, well, grown up. I'm sure it'd all be easier if we could all be shy people, sitting in corners and just make others come to us. But the world can't always work that way. You can't expect other people to put their current friends on pause to talk to you if you're not showing that you're willing to put just as much effort into them.
Talking to people can be hard, yeah. But if making bonds that last for life were super easy, would they really be so worth it?
P.S. stop with the passive-aggressive snarks
Maybe the person has social anxiety ay? "Just fight it off and talk with people" is kind of rude, and doesn't really work. Anxiety is not fun, and is something I struggle with. I don't tell other people who struggle with social anxiety to "start talking to people already, get over it and learn to initiate a conversation." I love talking with people, but I always struggle (Well, mostly in person) with starting conversations even with people I know. It doesn't mean I don't care to put effort into my relationship with said person, I just have really bad anxiety. Am I saying people with social anxiety should stop fighting it? Or just shy people in general to stay shy? No. But we should try and help them. Be nice, talk with them, be inviting. Can't be so assumptious about what people actually have on their mind.