We (as ops, as a server, and as a community) can only do so much, while swearing is allowed we can only allow it in a certain context and only so much, that being said if you wish to not expose your siblings to cursing then perhaps you should do more to stop them from seeing it, now on to my personal opinion, I believe kids should know about swears and how to swear at a certain age, this doesn't affect how I operate because it's not my choice, already I can tell your referring to me because this happened only a few hours ago, the guy I banned was wearing a HITLER SKIN, I had told him to go change it and after I kicked him he came back without doing so, I told him he was going to be banned and he evaded it, this means I cannot simply type in /ban (name), I have to type in /whois ban his IP which is quite long and if people talk to much I can't finish, and his name, so I was angry and called him a fucking idiot, as I said before Ops can only do so much and it's just as much your responsibility if not more.